What’s your status right now? Are you happy being single or happy being in a relationship? For a lot of people, especially teens, being single is a thing to be ashamed of. It is a big deal for them when they don’t have a partner while some of their friends do, yet in the end it is a matter of whether you are content or not. Relationship with an opposite sex is just a little part of that.
For those who are in a relationship, here’s for you:
1. Don’t take them for granted.
Sometimes when we know that they won’t leave us no matter what, that’s when we are about to take them for granted. Always give value in everything they do and appreciate them.
2. Don’t make him feel bad about himself.
A conflict or argument will come eventually and all of the emotions will be hyped up that will test both of your patience and understanding. In the end, don’t let him feel bad about himself. Be humble and accept each other’s flaws.
3. Don’t ever stop surprising them.
In the first months and years the surprises are consistent and you may feel that it will last forever but sometimes the tendency of being together for long, all the excitement will fade gradually. Do not let it happen. Surprise them as long as you can.
4. Do learn to pick your battles wisely. There are going to be some things worth fighting for. Be prudent to choose when to argue or to let go. Toxicity will eventually come when both of you are always having fights.
5. Do help them feel secure.
It is important that they have confidence in you and assure them that they are safe and loved.
6. Do affirm them as always as you can.
Affirmation is one of love languages that is powerful. Do tell them good things like they are beautiful or any good characteristics they have. Be consistent in doing this.
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Author: B. Carlos
